diff --git a/domain/service/cp_s/cp_relation.go b/domain/service/cp_s/cp_relation.go
index bc60eeed138ab291e196b86f8006423595e8c0c3..ac96772904c30ac71ff71e30f3a561985399419b 100644
--- a/domain/service/cp_s/cp_relation.go
+++ b/domain/service/cp_s/cp_relation.go
@@ -130,6 +130,15 @@ func CancelCpRelation(myCtx *mycontext.MyContext, myUserId uint64, externalId, l
 		return err
 	}
 
+	// 我和对方是否是cp，且cp关系存在
+	cpRelation, err := cp_m.GetCpByIds(model, myUserId, userRec.ID)
+	if err != nil {
+		return err
+	}
+	if cpRelation.Id == 0 {
+		model.Log.Errorf("CancelCpRelation cp关系不存在 id1:%v, id2:%v", myUserId, userRec.ID)
+		return myerr.WrapErr(bizerr.InvalidParameter)
+	}
 	// 自己没有cp了
 	myCp, err := cp_m.GetCp(model, myUserId)
 	if err != nil {
@@ -146,15 +155,6 @@ func CancelCpRelation(myCtx *mycontext.MyContext, myUserId uint64, externalId, l
 	if inviCp.Id == 0 {
 		return myerr.WrapErr(bizerr.InvalidParameter)
 	}
-	// 我和对方是否是cp，且cp关系存在
-	cpRelation, err := cp_m.GetCpByIds(model, myUserId, userRec.ID)
-	if err != nil {
-		return err
-	}
-	if cpRelation.Id == 0 {
-		model.Log.Errorf("CancelCpRelation cp关系不存在 id1:%v, id2:%v", myUserId, userRec.ID)
-		return myerr.WrapErr(bizerr.InvalidParameter)
-	}
 
 	// 是否有关于我的cp解除申请，且还未被处理
 	myCancel, err := cp_m.GetCpCancelWithMe(model, user.ID, cp_e.CpCancel)